“____, do you take ____ to be your wedded (wife/husband), and in the presence of these witnesses do you vow that you will do everything in your power to make your love for (her/him) a growing part of your life? Will you continue to strengthen it from day to day and week to week with your best resources? Will you stand by (her/him) in sickness or in health, in poverty or in wealth, and will you shun all others and keep yourself to (her/him) alone as long as you both shall live?”
i do… i did. 13 years ago. and i have not regretted it for even a moment. my wife has as. and the longer i live with her i realize that it is exactly because she does have aspergers, that i love her.
i must be weird, because i think LOVE is easy, LOVING is simple. it is all about DOING. read that italicized paragraph again – there is not one single emotion mentioned – only verbs, ACTION words. do you get it?